Here’s the thing with this cultural concept of forgiveness: for some people, it works. For many many many people, it is not a good or healthy solution. Forgiving forces us to include the person who has harmed us. It causes another form of harm. As in: if you can’t/don’t’/won’t forgive, you’re not good, strong, healthy, living your best life. I call bullshit on that.
If you’re privileged to have a community of people who’ve helped you in the past for any reason, you’re #privileged. Not lucky. Privileged.
Your #privilege is a shareable, reusable, non expiring resource.
Step 1: Reign in your perspective.